Thursday, February 08, 2007

Dealing with negative people

So recently I had the opportunity to see a psychic who also happended to be a high school friend of a friend of mine. He was very good, and if not psychic, a very good counselor. He saw that I had been asking for protection (and yes, this was a few months ago, right after my "little me" encounter... ) and HIS advice in dealing with people are shooting you negative energy is to think of yourself as an angel and how would an angel react to this person, "without all that judgement crap." It's probably the best piece of advice I've received. It allows me a little bit of an ego boost, which might be against the point, but it does help me to not absorb the energy.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi there. I found your blog through search engine, looking for a way to make myself feeling better after associating with a negative person for a few years. Now it's too late because I'm so drained as if there's a psychic attack going on. Even when we are no longer in contact, I still feel her presence and negative vibes which is overwhelming.

The fact that I have chose to protect myself and walk away made her even more angry. Although I did my best to distant myself gently, she's not in the place to understand what's really going on here yet. Thus she's obsessed with the idea of being abandoned and left behind. Because she's a friend I love dearly it's so difficult for me to let go as well. What hurts me the most is that she never sees the best intention I've for her, and only wants to control me instead of allowing us to grow together. It's not her time to understand, yet here's a big learning curve for me too. I try to see in a positive way that she has taught me to set my boundary so I don't allow energy vampires so close. However, right now I'm so drained. I only hope hope time will heal everything and love will conquer all. Please Archangel Michael, cut all these cords and set us free from each other.

I've tried to visualise myself as an angel and see her spitefulness with mercy and love. But the situation hasn't improved. She only come back and test my patience over and over again, as if she wants to drag me down. I guess what I really want to say is I wish I could be that strong, but it's so difficult for me to do so.

Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts, however.